Instead of wearing a t-shirt with jeans with sneakers to whatever, try sprucing it up with a "just as comfortable" faux wrap shirt or a real wrap shirt with a pair of wide-legged trouser jeans. Slip on some ballet flats (which I cannot wear ever, but they are cute), some open toed wedges with fresh nail polish (a must), or some pointy-toe kitten heels, like Londyn to your left, with a cute necklace and bag and you are ready to go. This look requires very little effort (just forethought really) and you end up looking polished and fresh. And feeling a tad bit more confident. Price? First, you must know that I am scandalously cheap. I picked up two faux-wrap shirts the other day at my best thrift store (Big Saver in Roebuck) for about 3.00 a piece. One was from Banana Republic and the other was from Harold's. My favorite pair of trouser jeans came from my local Plato's Closet (consignment) which are Banana Republic and cost $12.00. Typically, wrap shirts have more of a V-neck, but slip a little cami underneath and you are good. I love a wrap shirt because it accentuates the top of the waist, which is the thinnest part of the tummy area. The rouching effect in the middle will camoflauge tummy problems (hello, been pregnant three times). I love a pointy-toe shoe; it elongates the leg and makes you look longer and thinner (for real). Same with a good-fitting pair of trouser jeans or pants.
Saturday, March 29, 2008
Don't you want some fashion advice?
Instead of wearing a t-shirt with jeans with sneakers to whatever, try sprucing it up with a "just as comfortable" faux wrap shirt or a real wrap shirt with a pair of wide-legged trouser jeans. Slip on some ballet flats (which I cannot wear ever, but they are cute), some open toed wedges with fresh nail polish (a must), or some pointy-toe kitten heels, like Londyn to your left, with a cute necklace and bag and you are ready to go. This look requires very little effort (just forethought really) and you end up looking polished and fresh. And feeling a tad bit more confident. Price? First, you must know that I am scandalously cheap. I picked up two faux-wrap shirts the other day at my best thrift store (Big Saver in Roebuck) for about 3.00 a piece. One was from Banana Republic and the other was from Harold's. My favorite pair of trouser jeans came from my local Plato's Closet (consignment) which are Banana Republic and cost $12.00. Typically, wrap shirts have more of a V-neck, but slip a little cami underneath and you are good. I love a wrap shirt because it accentuates the top of the waist, which is the thinnest part of the tummy area. The rouching effect in the middle will camoflauge tummy problems (hello, been pregnant three times). I love a pointy-toe shoe; it elongates the leg and makes you look longer and thinner (for real). Same with a good-fitting pair of trouser jeans or pants.
Brak singing
What happens when your husband wakes up at 4am to go fishing and then you can't back to sleep? Well, I don't know about you, but I look at Brak clips on Youtube.
Friday, March 28, 2008
Salt and Light
Christ conquered sin, not me. I'm still in this flesh. That is still sinning. As His daughter, I have been given His righteousness, by grace, through faith. I think that is showing more of a light to others by being real about your life. Life really, really bites sometimes. And sometimes it's great. The gospel is true in both ways. Showing grace to one another, through failures, is the biggest way I see salt and light. Quinn is fabulous at this. I remember one time when I was so discouraged, and I thought he would say something like "I hope you feel better", or "You shouldn't feel that way", but he apologized to me for not being more of a godly husband and showed me such incredible grace through my own failure. That encouraged my faith. He showed me Jesus was real to him. The gospel isn't just a tidy little box that you have to introduce in a conversation to an unbeliever (waiting for the magical moment), it IS life.
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Ticker
Thoughts that are currently running on the ticker:
Are we really moving to Mississippi? What? (why does this still not seem like a reality for me?)How on earth am I going to find piano students once we get there? What is Quinn going to find for work? Is it even fair for him to work? Where are we going to go to church? Will it be anything like Community? (not possible) I really need to start trying to pack stuff. Or purge more stuff. Where can I find a 3/4 sleeve light, fitted jacket for spring/summer for under $10? How much will I weigh when I go to the OB/GYN for my yearly check-up? (I loathe getting weighed at the doctor's office) I need to go to the library. We are completely out of checks, but I don't want to get more because we will have to switch banks once we move and a box of checks is $35. It stresses me out to not have checks. Although we really don't need them anymore, I guess. Tonight Lost is on. Will they play last week's episode that I missed? I need to register for that 5K that is next Saturday today so that I can get my t-shirt (gotta have the t-shirt to announce to the world that I ran a 5K- Ta Dah!). I really need to finish Christ of the Covenants so that I can read some fiction. (guilt) I really need to be better at ________. (this one keeps repeating itself with a new word entered in the blank) How will the boys do in school next year? How will Corin do on the SAT's in April? Will he reflect my excellent homeschooling abilities? (stifling a laugh).... sigh
There's my ticker. It's like my alarm clock that wakes me up at 3AM or 4AM. This morning I gave up trying to go back to sleep to just get up and start the day.
Lately, I feel like I've been avoiding issues of my heart. I'm usually so busy that it's easy to brush them away. I'm very glad that I teach 4/5 year old Sunday School class, because at least I am hearing myself talk about Jesus to the children. How easy it is to forget to talk about Jesus with my own! My own complacency is a heavy weight. I read my ticker (or see my ticker in my brain) and realize that all those things will take care of themselves. None of them are of supreme importance; I just "need" to worry about something. He always provides for my needs. But still, the ticker ticks...
The day beckons...
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
I'm a Superstar! Well, maybe just a back-up singer...
We had a great time today at the get-together. The weather was gorgeous, so the children enjoyed themselves hugely outdoors while the mommas enjoyed themselves hugely indoors. We had the Chocolate Mouse Cake with fresh whipped cream, which was big hit (thank you Sarah for helping me make it), cookies, chips with Queso dip, pretzels with dip, and coffee. These things alone would've made the afternoon go by pleasantly, but then Angie Wilkes showed up with her PlayStation 2 with SingStar. Holy Cats. This is a very fun game. Of course, I must pay homage to Paige Mitchell, because she totally kicked butt. The premise of the game is to choose a song you want to sing to (my favorite were the '80's choices), and then you and another player sing the song "against" each other. Whoever matches the pitches most correctly is the Superstar. Fun, fun, FUN.
Anyway, thanks to everybody for coming (and we had quite a crowd) and we'll have to do it again before the big move (and before it gets too hot!).
Monday, March 24, 2008
Wednesday Invite
Monday Morning Blues
Laundry that needs to be done? Check.
School that needs to be started? Check.
Shower that needs to be gotten so that I can make my dentist appointment on time? Check.
Breakfast dishes that need to be loaded in the dishwasher? Check.
Beds that need to be made? Check.
Wasting time blogging when I should be busy? Check.
Yep. Sounds pretty typical for a Monday Morning. Well, I need to go pretend to floss so that I can lie to my dentist.
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Resurrection Day Celebration
Saturday, March 22, 2008
A trip to Florida in a Nutshell
Whew! That's a mess of pictures! We had a great week visiting my family and now I'm glad we're home. The day before Easter! I love Easter at my church and am looking forward to our service tomorrow. It's good to be sitting on the sofa with my hubby, knowing that he loves me and missed me while I was gone. Thanks to dear friend, Crissy for traveling with me. Yesterday's trip home was awesome. We stopped in Columbus, GA to see Crissy's old friend (and my relatively new friend- somehow we were separated at birth), Jawan and enjoyed visiting with her. We took a new way home off HWY 280 (rt 25) and it went over a mountain. We did this at sunset and listened to Sufjan Stevens and it was magical. Words make it sound stupid. It was like we drove through some magic portal, were amazed for a little while and then we were home. I would love to picnic there, even though I feel the magic was only for a little while. I have a beautiful memory of it. It makes me cry to think of it.
Anyhoo, have a gorgeous saturday. I love March in the south!
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Just Checking In...
We have heard from the bank about the house. They countered and we've countered back. And so it goes.
What can I say? I've been pretty lazy here. There may be a pedicure in the future (tomorrow) with my mother. See y'all soon.
Saturday, March 15, 2008
Saturday Insanity
Thursday, March 13, 2008
Lost, Fashion, Milkshakes, etc...
I've been reading some fashion blogs lately. I have even considering doing one of my own, except that it's extremely intimidating to think of actually chronicling my own style. And what about the days when I throw on ancient cargo shorts and a Camp Cornerstone t-shirt because I don't feel like showering? That's more often than I care to admit. However, I do love to find great deals (found two adorable shirts at the thrift store today for about $3 a piece, a pair of brand new Nine West pointy-toe, kitten-heel mules for $6, and a cute black purse for $5) and I love to help people find their confidence in wearing something they normally wouldn't think to wear. Maybe I'll just keep one blog and not feel like I have a project to do everyday. I get some great ideas from here and here. Something new I've been thinking about just this year is getting things altered. I've never even considered doing that before. Today I took a black Laura Ashley mock turtleneck jersey dress that I thrifted in 2004 to the taylor to have it shortened from ankle-length to calf-length to make it more modern. I'm excited about the turnout. The first pair of pants I took to J.Li (the drycleaner/taylor down the road a bit) were a pair of classic khaki dress pants with wide legs and a lovely cuff that Rachel's mother, Yvonne, gave to me a few years ago. They were soooo long, but I couldn't bear to part with them because they were so pretty. I kept thinking, I should just get these shortened but it will be SO expensive. And it WAS $9 (which is more than I thought it would be), but now I wear them. So, I paid $9 for a pair of pants. And I love them. Anyway, that's that. Tomorrow take what you need to take to the taylor and see what he can do. It's a great way to increase what you've already got without spending extra money on new stuff.
We heard back from the realtor today in Mississippi. We did not hear that they would accept our offer, but that the bank was going to recheck the house to survey the damage, which the realtor was taking as a hopeful sign that they may accept the offer. It's just taking a bit. Somebody told me that foreclosures take FOREVER. We need to keep the ball rolling.
I've had two strawberry milkshakes from Chic-Fil-A in the past two weeks. Do you know how many calories are in a milkshake from Chic-Fil-A? I won't tell you. It's pretty bad. But they are SO good. And I did ask if they were going to reinstate the Chocolate Mint Cookies and Cream milkshakes they had last summer. No deal. Which I guess is good because they are simply the best shakes in the whole world. And they're huge. And I could drink a whole one by myself. I'm drooling thinking about it. Yummy. I need to drink some water.
I'm THINKING about breaking open my spring-summer Rubbermaid box. However, that means it will be freezing for two weeks afterward. That's what always happens. I'm aching to wear open-toe wedges with a lovely floral skirt. Soon. Maybe. I'm guessing I'll still have time to wear the black jersey dress I'm having altered with boots before I put it away until next fall. I cannot imagine living in a colder climate. Especially since I'm the midst of spring in lovely Alabama. Quinn and I went to Maine for our honeymoon in May of '99, and it was still very chilly and the trees were just starting to bloom. A southern winter is about all I can handle.
Silas had his dentist appointment today to remove the bad tooth. He was a trooper and I cried a bit. Thank goodness Daddy was there. Dr. Redmond told me that I should probably leave the room. And I gladly ran out before they started digging. Silas was a trooper. He never fussed and the only time he cried was when I put him in the car and he told me his mouth felt funny. He wanted to put a brave face on for Daddy and Dr. Redmond. Poor buddy. After the anesthesia wore off, he was COMPLETELY fine. He has not complained about it all day. He does not get his pain tolerance from me, that's for sure.
Going to bed now, folks. My eyes are struggling to stay open. Night, night!
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Some Faves
Homemade peanut butter sauce to put on a scoop of ice cream (one dollop of peanut butter, 2 tsp of sugar, and a little bit of milk- microwave for 1 minute, stir, and VOILA- yumness). It reminds me of the peanut butter and maple syrup concoction my mom would make when she hankered for something sweet.
My new pointy-toe black boots I got on clearance at Steinmart. They are comfortable and very cute.
Training for the 5K we're doing in April. I've been lifting weights and I feel stronger. It's pretty cool. Totally goes against the peanut butter sauce, but I've GOTTA have something sweet.
Springtime! Good grief, today is gorgeous. We went to the park today and I finished lesson plans outside. Lovely.
The pedicure I'm going to get when I'm in Florida next week. I've been looking forward to it for two weeks. The place that my sister goes to down there does a fabulous job. My toes are in desperate need of a pedicure.
Sam's. Just love Sam's. I love to buy in bulk. It makes me mad (yep, MAD) to buy toilet paper, so I only like to get it at Sam's so that I don't have to buy it very often. And paper towels. And Cheezits.
And dishwasher detergent.
Aldi's. My other new favorite store. Would you like to get milk for 1.99 each? Amazing. We go through 4 to 6 gallons a week. It's 4.00 a gallon at Walmart. At Aldi's, you have to pay a quarter to get a grocery cart, and the groceries are in boxes, and you bring your own bags. Low overhead makes for CHEAP groceries. And milk that costs 2 bucks.
I've renewed a love for the piano. I've been practicing scales and playing classical stuff. And I'm really enjoying teaching piano. It's been almost a year since I got the new keys. I may blog about that later.
Vanilla, brown sugar shampoo. It smells divine.
My new dentist, Dr. Redmond. He's fabulous and he's located in Moody.
Not buying diapers anymore. Felix is doing so well! Woo hoo!
I love a favorites list...
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Oh, Happy Day...
Yesterday I took the big boys to the dentist and Silas has to have some big work done on Thursday. He needs to have a tooth pulled, the infected area dug (ouch) out, a smaller cavity filled next to the really bad tooth, and a spacer put in because it will be several years until the adult tooth comes in (it's a molar). Poor guy. I loathe to tell you that this was his first dentist trip (yep, almost 6 years old) and we probably could've caught the bad tooth last year. I felt major guilt, even as the dentist was trying to tell me I was not a bad parent (he must've seen the look on my face). I took for granted that Quinn and I have good teeth and was just SURE that nothing would be wrong. Corin was fine, except for an overbite issue that will cause a chism in our bank account in about four years.
No word on the house in Mississippi yet, and I'm going just a little bit nuts. CALL.
Sunday, March 09, 2008
Newsreel
Yesterday was a very productive day for me. I cleaned the house (with the help of Super Husband), did laundry (what else is new?), and got rid of a whole bunch of the boys' clothes. Six stuffed garbage bags full. Five of those bags were baby clothes up to 2t. It was very difficult getting rid of them, especially the itty-bitty baby clothes. I caught myself boo-hooing a little. Well, actually, Quinn caught me boo-hooing and felt sorry for me. And I really did need to get rid of them. We don't plan on having a baby any time soon and I'm not keen on lugging 3 extra boxes of clothes to Mississippi, just in case we have an unplanned baby. "Unplanned". That's cute. Anyway, I did keep the gowns they wore home from the hospital, some blankets that were made for them, and a smocked romper that each of them wore. I think Quinn brought them to the church's clothes closet, if anybody needs boy clothes up to 2t.
Quinn and I also made a huge pot of white chili and had Jason and Michelle over for dinner. It was lovely. There's always plenty of laughter and good conversation (including one of the most embarrassing moments of my life-my face was red for a solid 7 minute conversation) when they come over. They have been the only blood-family we've lived near the entire time in Birmingham and I will miss having them near when we leave. We still will get to see them quite a bit; everyone still goes to Kosciusko, MS to visit Grandma's for holidays and such.
We did wake up to snow yesterday. It was a complete surprise. I had no idea it was going to snow and the boys played in it for a bit. I had to make Silas get dressed and go outside. Maybe he's a little bit like me and hates the cold. I pulled on a jacket and went and took pictures for about 2 minutes and decided that was good enough. 35 degrees is very chilly. I'll post pictures later.
No word on the house yet in Mississippi. Quinn was encouraged that we didn't get an immediate laugh in the face and a huge "no way". Maybe Monday. The whole moving thing seems surreal to me. I have only really thought about the actual "living in a new place, with new schools, and a new church" a couple of times. It's easier to think and talk about decorating a new house than actually thinking of leaving my church, the Littles, and dear friends. Nine weeks is not that far away. Yikes.
Thursday, March 06, 2008
Anticipation
I hope to visit it soon. And take lots of pictures. And start cleaning it up. And start painting. And clean the carpets- which we're keeping. So, who has a carpet cleaner vaccuum?
Taking the boys to get haircuts at Miss Angie's, a punish which I loathe to put on myself. Felix breaks out in hives when he gets haircuts. Silas did when he was little, too. However, it's high-time they had haircuts. Silas looks like a ragamuffin. Corin's hair is longish and cute, but it looks better when it's short. Felix's hair looks okay, but I might as well endure it today since we're already there.
I love Thursdays. It's going to be a good day. And the weather looks great. And Lost comes on tonight. Woo hoo!
Tuesday, March 04, 2008
Looking at the Sky...
Monday, March 03, 2008
It's been a week?
Has it been almost a week since I blogged? Unbelievable. This past week has been a blur. Saturday night we had the talent show at our church and Amber Ellis and I sung this song. Guess which one I was. Yeah, yeah typecasted, I know. It was very fun. I now want to see the musical Wicked. I loved the talent show. There were people who videoed it, and if I can get my hands on one of the recordings then maybe I can figure out how to post it.
So, we have a tentative moving date. It is May 19th. Quinn has been looking at a house that's close to the seminary. It's bigger than the married housing and it may be cheaper to live there. It needs a lot of work (I'm ready for suggestions, Abbey Gore). I'll post pictures when I get some. I'm getting more excited and more nervous about leaving. It'll be great living near and seeing Quinn's family more often, but I will miss my church family desperately. I don't want to think about it. Times are a'changing.
Monday morning is here (bleah) and I must get started...
Later peeps.